Rebecca what is he thinking

How can we be dependent on God for our identity, not on you? How can we help you with boundaries physically? Rebecca also discusses her own dating life, speaking openly about the single life, her struggle with loneliness, and her hope for the future. She challenges women to see the men in their lives as brothers in Christ and to trust God with their dating lives.

Australian born Rebecca St. James is a Grammy Award winner and a multiple Dove Award recipient, with international success that has driven her record sales into the millions. Rebecca also won Best Female Artist of from Christianitytoday.

You can read more about Rebecca on her official website: www. What would you like to know about this product? Please enter your name, your email and your question regarding the product in the fields below, and we'll answer you in the next hours. What Is He Thinking?? By: Rebecca St. Wishlist Wishlist. These are the questions that go through my mind. Also, on pg.

Personally, I can't imagine going from zero to sixty all on the wedding night. I don't think its wrong to kiss before you're married, but personally, I think it's better to wait! A little physical touch can quickly escalate into a lot of physical touch, especially when you start including kissing.

What about all the amazing marriages of people who didn't kiss until marriage I think it was probably beautiful because they saved themselves fully for each other and their marriage. Already, our physical boundaries in this day and age are sadly lacking I just wish Rebecca St. James hadn't made saving your first kiss for marriage appear to be a bad thing! I enjoyed Rick Anderson's testimony about marriage and stuff.

And also Nick Vujucic's thoughts pg. And some others. There was definitely some good thoughts, some good input. But I felt the overall message was putting too much emphasis on dating, having fun, getting yourself out there, responding to guys' interest What happened to trusting God?

Is it wrong to treat men as my brothers and wait faithfully for my future husband? They said stuff like, date like a Christian, encourage your boyfriend! Don't be selfish like the world. But in the end, it's still just dating for fun, and you may or may not marry the person. Dating is serious. Even if your heart's not broken in the end, your boyfriend's probably is! Why have fun, romantic times with all kinds of different guys?

Why not save those fun, romantic times soley for your future husband, thus showing him you love him? I don't want to have emotional bonds with like five different people like a lot of the people in this book seemed to do. I want it all for my future husband. I want to save my firsts for him Why not try and save as many "firsts" as we can for our future spouse instead of just "saving sex for marriage". The message goes beyond this Is dating guys just because they possibly could be the right one writing that love song?

Is flirting with every interested, cute, Christian guy writing that love song? Is kissing several different boyfriends writing that love song? I mean, Proverbs says we are to bring to our husbands "good, not harm, all the days of her life. I think that means even when you're not married to him yet. And 1 Timothy says to "treat younger men as brothers This is not a game!

I don't want to date unless: I'm already good friends with the guy; I and he have prayed earnestly about this and can see it coming to marriage in the future within God's plan; and he's asked my dad's permission.

And obviously, first and foremost, he's a believer and striving to follow and know Christ more! Maybe we aren't waiting for God's best.

Maybe that's the problem with marriages these days. Maybe we're leaping into the first relationship that comes our way, and not letting God lead. Hey, I believe that God is in control! He is absolutely able to bring the right person into your life at the right time, if you will but surrender your "love story" pen to Him! They made a commitment not to date, but to wait faithfully instead. And they trusted God. I don't mean to bash Rebecca St. Like I said, I've enjoyed some of her books, music, movies and stuff.

I'm not saying I think she did it all wrong and her own marriage isn't going to be the best for her. Not at all. I'm happy she's found her beloved! But her overall message in What Is He Thinking??

I found some really good tidbits in it, but most of it had me anxious and set me to worrying. Please don't think I'm trying to act like I know it all! I don't!! But I just want to treat men as my brothers! With absolute purity. Encourage and uplift them in Christ! Not give any part of me away that belongs to my future husband. And wait faithfully for my own, "one and only" beloved. View all 5 comments. Aug 07, ILoveBooks rated it really liked it. This is a shockingly informative book for being so slim approximately pages.

There are 8 chapters, each dedicated to a certain quality that is commonly thought of in dating flirting, body image, God and guys, etc The author utilizes true stories about her own and others' dating experiences to help the reader understand her point.

She asks men questions and provides the reader with their honest answers. In the novel, she is very persuasive concerning her views. This book is very conce This is a shockingly informative book for being so slim approximately pages. However, the author is not pushy with her views; they are given neutrally. View 1 comment.

Nov 30, SarahO rated it liked it Shelves: read-in , christian-nonfiction. I thought this book was very eye opening but I have to admit I rolled my eyes at the guys ideals more than once. They have their lists just like us girls and I think they need to be a little more realistic because it sounds like they want the girl to do all the work.

Let us be a guy" I have a response to that but I won't say it. My favorite parts were actually hearing the married guys speak because it sounde I thought this book was very eye opening but I have to admit I rolled my eyes at the guys ideals more than once.

My favorite parts were actually hearing the married guys speak because it sounded more real. I did get some out of this but sadly it was just a lot of eye rolling.

I may be to hard but that was my initial reaction to reading this. Jun 04, Afrijewel rated it really liked it. At first, I thought what is this? And, I'm giving this away tomorrow. Restrictions apply.

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Format: Paperback. Publisher: Faithwords. Age Range: Adult. Author: Rebecca St James. Language: English. Street Date : September 1, TCIN : UPC : The men respond candidly to questions like: What is the most attractive quality to you in a woman? Is modesty truly attractive? Is neediness a turn-off? What do you find beautiful? How can we be dependent on God for our identity, not on you? How can we help you with boundaries physically? Review Quotes "I invite you to read my friend Rebecca's book What Is He Thinking With humor, honesty, and genuine curiosity, Rebecca writes about dating and her experiences interviewing single men.

A must read for every girl who is wondering where all the good guys have gone. These true stories-of young women who are sold out to God and willing to take on whatever He calls them to-just blew me away.